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Enneagram Care Board Archive Why is love so terrible? I'm missing something (huh?) - oh well -everyone has their own opinion ntPosted by Margaret on June 05, 2000 at 23:17:14: In Reply to: Margaret, Get a Life Girl, something isn't quite right here, maybe you need a counselor of somesort. nt posted by bb on June 05, 2000 at 22:25:26:
: : : : : If the child you assume care over is out of your own true willingness and desire to love, - as opposed to being forced to by any other means on the outside - you could never shower them true love - because you don't feel it deep down inside. : : : : On the other hand - when you do feel it deep down inside - then you know it is out os your own true desire and will - : : : : and *that* is when the love you feel for them is like a bottomless well - never ending. : : : : Under these conditions - the love one feels permeates all others around them and is this this power of love that is the greatest 'natural discipline' in the world. : : : : So natural and powerful a force love is- that to call it discipline is almost a parody. : : : : Because no longer is one behaving properly due to fear of negative consequences, but now is motivated in a forward motion -that of being happy to do so - out of feeling the gift of love. : : : : And it is not gender biased. : : : : Matter of fact I can think of a couple right now that deserve the tender, delicate golden treasure of love, no, make that three. : : : : :) : : : : Peace and love be with you all people!
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