Posted by heatherb on June 26, 2000 at 06:20:58:
In Reply to: A positive note posted by Anna on June 23, 2000 at 19:06:16:
: In times of emotional distress I came here to complain and whatnot, and sometimes it helped, sometimes it didn't. I just wanted to say that here and now, I feel really good. Last year was a very very hard year for me, and I have FINALLY stopped torturing myself over things that happened. To be able to let go of the past is wonderful.
: And if any of you care, things are going well with my relationship, and I am going back to college in the fall (I am taking a summer class in Anthropology now as well) and I have a bit direction. I'm still not a healthy Four, but I know I have the strength to move on. Of course, I could probably take this all back tomorrow!
Anna,
That's great!! About going back to college, and taking a summer class in Anthropology!!
I'm also just happy for you, all around :) Hearing that you feel good, that you aren't torturing yourself over things that happened....
I am also happy that things are going well with your relationship!
As 4s we have our emotional ups and downs, moments of self-confidence and moments of self-hatred...! But it's SO good when we realize we have the strength to move on, to accept our realities and not torture ourselves... Even if one day it seems impossible, there are these days when it actually seems possible :) And I know how it feels.
Happy for you, Anna!!
heatherb