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Enneagram Care Board Archive DEECEEPosted by Margaret on November 21, 2001 at 16:09:25:
Haven't heard from you lately, hope everything's okay. Been meaning to get back to you earlier, but unfortunately there were some unexpected changes happening this past 1-2 months or so, kind of set me aback a bit, took me by surprise, regardless, it's pretty much all cleared up and dealt with by now. Anyway I've been wanting to say something to you earlier, about that Oscar thing, I thought it was mean, unkind, and unconsiderate what they did. I guess it kind of made me feel bad hearing about it, I wished I could have done something, something to stop it, like maybe getting the chance to intervene in time enough to stop them and ask them please reconsider their next move with a bit more discretion, with a more judicious use of discernment (not too mention consideration), but I guess what's done is done. Anyway, either way it was just another incident of unprofessional and inconsiderate conduct and unsound judgment on the part of another who simply was somehow not able to put more thought and tact into their decision. And, I'm glad, at least it's over with, it is good and healthy to acknowledge the unpleasantness of it, and therefore enabling us to move onward now. And that's good. I'm glad it's off the table, off your chest now. We are here to share our thoughts and feelings with each other. And to the best of our ability, we are here to support each other to the best of our interests. Meanwhile I guess somehow, it just would be a lot nicer world to live in if there was some way people could be educated to the fact that exercising more prudence, consideration, developing our faculty of sound judgement and discernment is such an important gain in this world, in our life, dealing with others, makes life so much easier and all the more pleasant, not to mention tolerable, I guess, that maybe the only thing I can do to spread it around, is simply just focus on using and developing it more on my own part, maybe that way, by example, others could pick up on it, besides, even if they don't, and some will, others won't, the least it would do is at least make me feel better about myself, it preserves a dignity within, I would say, that is when using and exercising substantial amount of prudence, discretion, discernment, when interacting iwht others, most likely most especially pronounced when dealing with more strained, or pressed relations iwth others, dignity, yes, I like that word, makes me feel better. Hope you do too. Happy Thanksgiving to you, DEECEE, my friend, God bless you and yours,
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