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Enneagram Care Board Archive Re: i wouldn't do it.Posted by isaac on December 20, 2001 at 09:25:06: In Reply to: Re: i wouldn't do it. posted by Emma on December 20, 2001 at 08:53:55: : Thank you for answering. My situation is different, because I am married. that certainly does change things.
but what's good for YOU? figure that out, and do it. nevermind the relationship, that's a concept, you're a living breathing human. you don't think you'll cheat on him, and you don't think that he'll cheat on you. do you think that you'll end up feeling less for one another? how important is it for you to go do what you gotta do for 6 months? is it worth the pain of missing your husband, and the risk of having a little tension to resolve later? that's the only real consideration, as far as i can see. healthy relationships are amazingly resilient. isaac
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