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Posted by Sharlee (138.130.220.27) on September 28, 2003 at 04:52:02:

In Reply to: Re: I desperately NEED some CARE!!!!!! posted by The4Blob (12.90.21.115) on September 27, 2003 at 08:04:41:

> . . . but then I am still at average-to-unhealthy 4 so I get so upset and emotional that I react.

#### My mistake Raz. I sort of knew when I was replying to your post that it was not what you wanted. I know it is tough not to react sometimes - sometimes I prepare myself for an encounter that I know will be charged emotionally but despite deciding to stay rational, I react. This does not happen often but it has happened recently and it is a state I hate to be in. Do you like being in an emotional state or is it out of your control? Is it something you would like to change? Unless you are working in the arts or a helping sort of role, most workplaces will be rational workplaces. While you can add much to this workplace by presenting an alternative perspective (feeling), thinking workplaces understand thinkers and feel uncomfortable with feeling type people, hence it is unlikely that your worth will be recognised. Don't put yourself down that you are average to unhealthy - you do not appear like that in your posts.

Sharlee1w2

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> > > . . . but then I am still at average-to-unhealthy 4 so I get so upset and emotional that I react. > #### My mistake Raz. I sort of knew when I was replying to your post that it was not what you wanted. I know it is tough not to react sometimes - sometimes I prepare myself for an encounter that I know will be charged emotionally but despite deciding to stay rational, I react. This does not happen often but it has happened recently and it is a state I hate to be in. Do you like being in an emotional state or is it out of your control? Is it something you would like to change? Unless you are working in the arts or a helping sort of role, most workplaces will be rational workplaces. While you can add much to this workplace by presenting an alternative perspective (feeling), thinking workplaces understand thinkers and feel uncomfortable with feeling type people, hence it is unlikely that your worth will be recognised. Don't put yourself down that you are average to unhealthy - you do not appear like that in your posts. > Sharlee1w2

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