Posted by Primer Gray on January 29, 2002 at 16:59:58:
In Reply to: yea no kidding. posted by sarah67zillion on January 29, 2002 at 15:40:48:
: : Like types often find more dislike than like; but, anything is possible.
: : What do you want in this relationsip? What does the other? Any mutual
: : wants? Mutual satisfactions? Try for diversity, not reinforcement.
: : Talk about facts and feelings; have a relationship. Move on if necessary!
: see now that's the thing. we both want the same, i think. and i say 'i think' mostly because what i want seems to change like the weather, but thats not really a big deal because i'm just crazy and he already knows and excepts it. plus, as people we're very different. we have our own lives, own worlds. we just happen to be driven by the same motivation, consumed by the same complexes, counterphobic, etc etc. the whole thing's totally freakin me out and i'm sure it's freakin him out. but i think i'm freaked out in a good way. things that don't freak me out are boring.
: and then again, I have never once heard of two 6w7s dating. and every one else i've been with hasn't worked for one reason or another, so....whatever. i'm totally into this person, regardless. it could be fun, right? why'm i freaking out?
I don't know. Stop freaking out, it will either work or it won't. I think it could be good, at least the whole "do unto others" thing will work since you'll have an understanding of what the other kinda wants.