Gender Differences

Posted by Sharlee on January 30, 2002 at 03:11:15:

In Reply to: Re: you really think for a second i'm not going to object? posted by P on January 29, 2002 at 17:51:13:

Someone said recently that when a man meets a woman, he first thinks would he or wouldn't he go to bed with her. Others say men think of sex many times a day (every few minutes). This is unheard of for me - in fact I could go for several days or weeks without it crossing my mind. I certainly would not fantasize with men who I meet (unless they were exceptionally attractive which is rare). I would be happy for men to disagree with what I've reported and say this isn't always so as it would restore my faith somewhat.

I wonder how men can focus on anything else if their minds are so dominated by sex ( well maybe 4's might include romance).

As for platonic friends with the opposite sex, I do have platonic male friends but I don't socialize with them or live in their pockets. Interaction is restricted to occasions when our paths cross. I do agree if men and women start spending time together, there is usually at least an unconscious attraction between the 2 which sooner or later ends up as some sort of sexual relationship. Sharlee

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• AAARGH! *text* Diarmuid 05:15:04 01/31/02 (30)
  • I can't leave it alone (double entendre intended) Harley 20:23:24 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:17:23 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:17:20 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:17:02 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:17:01 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:59 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:59 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:57 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:57 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:57 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:57 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:56 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:56 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:56 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:54 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:54 01/31/02 (0)
  • I can'ty leave it alone Harley 20:16:54 01/31/02 (0)
  • Re: Masterful explaination Perciever 12:43:53 01/31/02 (0)
  • Ok... Emily 09:16:45 01/31/02 (6)
    • Oh, and... Emily 09:21:27 01/31/02 (5)
      • that's not true... Diarm 11:26:00 01/31/02 (4)
        • 'sall good then! Emily [nt] 14:35:47 01/31/02 (0)
        • Re: Emilys popycock P 12:49:06 01/31/02 (2)
          • This new "real perciever" stuff is interesting. Are you finally going to tell us your name? Emily [nt] 14:37:26 01/31/02 (1)
            • Re: My name is KillRoy. P 16:03:48 01/31/02 (0)
  • Re: AAARGH! *text* Mikko 05:51:43 01/31/02 (4)
    • Re: AAARGH! *text* Perciever 12:56:03 01/31/02 (1)
      • I thought you had grown up Mikko 17:44:01 01/31/02 (0)
    • Re: AAARGH! *text* Diarmuid 08:06:15 01/31/02 (1)
      • Re: AAARGH! *text* Mikko 09:15:16 01/31/02 (0)
• Re: Gender Differences Mikko 05:06:41 01/30/02 (26)
  • Re: Gender Differences Sharlee 06:03:35 01/30/02 (25)
    • my view... Ex 20:36:53 01/30/02 (19)
      • Re: my view... Perciever 13:07:54 01/31/02 (0)
      • Porn Emily 09:30:48 01/31/02 (8)
        • Re: Porn Ex 16:14:28 01/31/02 (5)
          • There is always a choice. Emily 01:14:44 02/01/02 (4)
            • there's 'choice' and there's 'choice'... Ex 02:35:16 02/01/02 (3)
              • So romantic... Emily 05:51:49 02/01/02 (2)
                • Are all 4w5s this cynical? Diarmuid 06:43:58 02/01/02 (1)
                  • No way... Emily 15:20:04 02/01/02 (0)
        • Re: Porn Perciever 13:01:25 01/31/02 (0)
        • Re: Porn Diarmuid 11:33:49 01/31/02 (0)
      • Re: my view... Sharlee 04:52:39 01/31/02 (0)
      • Sensitive Question... Emily 21:11:15 01/30/02 (7)
        • Re: Sensitive Question... Ex 21:19:38 01/30/02 (6)
          • you seem to view sex from an entirely emotional standpoint (very fourish) diarm 08:52:13 01/31/02 (3)
            • I do agree with D... Emily 09:11:53 01/31/02 (2)
              • Re: I do agree with D... Ex 15:57:08 01/31/02 (1)
                • Sounds good to me. Emily [nt] 15:59:33 01/31/02 (0)
          • Re: Sensitive Question... Mikko 04:18:26 01/31/02 (0)
          • That's great, Ex. It'll be worth it. :) NT froggyTheFrog (9w1) 01:29:25 01/31/02 (0)
    • Re: Gender Differences P 08:43:06 01/30/02 (4)
      • Re: Gender Differences Sharlee 04:51:17 01/31/02 (2)
        • nevertheless Diarmuid 08:21:02 01/31/02 (1)
          • Re: nevertheless Sharlee 03:21:20 02/01/02 (0)
      • Re: Gender Differences P 21:15:38 01/30/02 (0)

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