Posted by Diarmuid on January 31, 2002 at 08:21:02:
In Reply to: Re: Gender Differences posted by Sharlee on January 31, 2002 at 04:51:17:
While Excalibur's position on the subject is, in your eyes, very good. It is very, very far from being universal, or even common.
I usually integrate to One when this subject comes up. It bothers me that delusion is so common on this subject when the facts are so clearly visible.
I feel that, even if the truth is ugly, and it makes you uncomfortable, you must still face it and accept it. Do you agree?
I worry that you are not merely searching for the truth about men, but are instead simply seeking reassurance that men are as sexually subtle as women sexually, and will cling to that small grain of reassurance, ignoring the mountain range of evidence on the other side.
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: : ***I wonder about you. People are sexual beings. Some more than others. Men are first attracted to a woman sexually. Then emotionally, then mentally. Women work in the opposite manner.
: : I give up. People are single because they have not figured out how men and women relate/cannot do it right.
: ##### I wonder about myself!! It may be the good versus evil aspect of the Type 1 that breaks out sometimes. However I still think it needs to be in perspective and I like Excalibur's position on the subject. Sharlee