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Posted by Perciever on January 31, 2002 at 13:07:54:

In Reply to: my view... posted by Ex on January 30, 2002 at 20:36:53:

: part of the reason why i disagree with pornography is that it cheapens what should otherwise be considered rare and beautiful.

***And also exploits.

of course porn/semi-porn is often stuffed down our throats

***Yes I hate it. I would rather see a picture of a hot chick with her legs spread open showing her wet pink wonders to the world then that
semi porn tease/ego shit.

so it's sometimes difficult to react emotionally rather than physically to a female in the beginning... it usually takes time.

***Thats cause' you are a man trying to think like a woman. Trust me on this I am right.

however, personally, though my first reaction to a female is physical, i rarely (if ever) desire sexual relations upon meeting them.

***Good, that how you should be.

my main goal is to connect mentally and emotionally with them so that i can understand both them and the female gender better. only then would i consider sexual relations with them, as my belief is that sex should only happen love is also present, and love is a connection that transcends the physical.

***I used to be exactly like that when I was younger. And it caused a lot of pain. Just be honest you want to hump them. All that soul mate stuff-Its for real...but a good marriage is incorporation
of knowing yourself, your spouse and being able to work constructively towards personal and mainly shared goals.

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: : part of the reason why i disagree with pornography is that it cheapens what should otherwise be considered rare and beautiful. : ***And also exploits. : of course porn/semi-porn is often stuffed down our throats : ***Yes I hate it. I would rather see a picture of a hot chick with her legs spread open showing her wet pink wonders to the world then that : semi porn tease/ego shit. : so it's sometimes difficult to react emotionally rather than physically to a female in the beginning... it usually takes time. : ***Thats cause' you are a man trying to think like a woman. Trust me on this I am right. : however, personally, though my first reaction to a female is physical, i rarely (if ever) desire sexual relations upon meeting them. : ***Good, that how you should be. : my main goal is to connect mentally and emotionally with them so that i can understand both them and the female gender better. only then would i consider sexual relations with them, as my belief is that sex should only happen love is also present, and love is a connection that transcends the physical. : ***I used to be exactly like that when I was younger. And it caused a lot of pain. Just be honest you want to hump them. All that soul mate stuff-Its for real...but a good marriage is incorporation : of knowing yourself, your spouse and being able to work constructively towards personal and mainly shared goals.

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