Posted by Alisa on February 02, 2002 at 21:56:58:
In Reply to: 9 and 8 relationship posted by Patty on January 30, 2002 at 00:56:20:
Why don't you just print out what you've written in your post and show it to him?
It sounds like he doesn't have a clue what you're thinking nor does he realize the negative impact his anger is having on you and the relationship.
Bottom line: It's basically not your problem, but he is shouldering you his problem, because he doesn't know what his problem is because you are not telling him. He the unaware type 8.
And, he needs to read some Anger books, not you.
Good luck.