Posted by Margaret on June 21, 2000 at 22:01:49:
In Reply to: MOUNT THEM! CONQUER THEM! LEAVE THEM! posted by Perciever on June 21, 2000 at 09:33:41:
I don't know what's going on in your life, but acting negative usually produces more negativity.
Maybe you are spending too much time with negative people in your life and need to replace the time spent with them with building more healthy friendships with positive people instead.
I am starting to get concerned about you. You used to post really good posts. But lately you seemed to have been overly preoccupied with unhealthy thoughts.
What's been going on with you lately? Whatever happened to that gf of yours you had a serious relationship with? How about your job, your bills, any debt? Family problems? Look I don't know any details of your life so I'm just reaching for anything here, but something has been happening to cause you to act out this way and it needs to be dealt with directly and seriously in a healthy productive way - because acting out unproductively is only going to make things worse.
(And don't say it's because you "not getting any" - that's just another lousy excuse to cover up the *real* issues - it's no different than say ing "because I'm not getting enough illegal drugs to use" or something.)
Margaret