Re: Seriously though...

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: P: My nilistic side is strong right now. : M: Then stop thinking negative thoughts. : : P: 30 years and not married. : M: So? - I have 4 cousins in the mid thirties and forties who still aren't. : That doesn't mean they're not worthy. : They're still very good wholesome valuable people. : Plus I have an aunt who got married (for first time)at 39. : P: Its like an illusion. So many people are. : M: People are just people. We all make mistakes, fool ourselves, misguide, misunderstand us and others at sometime or other. It's part of our human nature: the *key* is in how we deal with it - productively & positively or negatively & for destructive pursuits. : P: Yet I'm not. : : So why not have some fun. : M: True, have fun, enjoy life, the world, other people - as long as it's healthy and no one gets hurt. : Note: If someone gets hurt in the process - it's not really "fun". : : P: Everyone needs role models. : M: Agree. : P: Our role models are very strange ones indeed. : M: Our role models are whoever we choose them to be. : We have a choice - we can choose to look up to people such as M.L.King, Ghandi, Mother Theresa, Jesus, etc. or bad people who hurt others and destroyed life. : P: The sad thing is it would be easier to be ted bundy than w. beatty. : M: NO - there are very few people who can live with a dead conscience like Bundy did. : Most actors' consciences, although some very corrupt, are nowhere near the point of absolute decay like his was. : : P: The arm in a sling thing works great. It attracts warm hearted, caring : : women. Like NF's, ESFJ's and other-oriented women. : M: Not really. : You can sense when someone is a little too eager to get sympathy. That always pulls up a red flag. : The women who fell for it ignored thier red flags and did what was the socially acceptable thing that most women are trained and encouraged by traditional society to do: that is I'm saying is that women are brought up to ignore their natural instincts regarding danger - must fight or flight signals - all for the sake of maintaining their "goodness" role. : This is a tragedy- which all parents must learn from and teach their daughters (and sons) to never fall prey to. : The only thing we as a society can do is to learn from that and move on from there. : P: Enough mental masturbation...time for bed. AFUCKINGLONE. : M: Good. Get some sleep. Get rid of the negativity and nihilism. : Stick with positive people and life-affirming thoughts and you'll be okay - you'll feel much better. : Life is not worth anger, hatred, bitterness, resentment. : Life is too short, fragile, precious, and valuable for that. : Why live an emotionally and spiritually bankrupt, decayed life? : Assess the real life quality of your gains and costs for living with a negative perspective vs. a positive one. : We can not control much resources, people, events, or much anything else in this world - and it may disappoint us if we allow to think about it - but the one thing we can control is how we see, feel and view life. Our attitudes, our goals, our perspectives, our decisions, our behaviours, our thoughts - we can control us - our worlds - and what we allow to go on in it. : That's the gift we are all given to have. : And it's so fragile, short, and precious - we don't have time to waste it away and take it for granted - we just don't. : Get some sleep and be well Perceiver - you'll come out of the "storm" soon - just decide that the rewards are much the more greater for the doing so, that's all. : Margaret

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