Posted by Flower Pagan (68.35.114.160) on November 28, 2002 at 02:20:28:
In Reply to: 4 & 9 posted by Epoxy (216.166.228.231) on November 27, 2002 at 14:31:24:
I am happy for you, Emily and I agree with you that it is interesting! They only had one couple for 2 and 9, which seems to be a little discouraging.
Well, this is the first 2w3 boyfriend that I ever had that I know of. I have been with 6 and 3 romantically as far as I know of, which matches what that sight says that female 9 mostly marry. I also have close encounters with type 1 and glad that it was dissolved before they try to control me more than they were already. I admit, I did like their masculine strength, but I love my 2w3 nurturing and loving nature as well. Epoxy, do you see hope for the 9 female and the 2 male?
I don't know what to think of all of this. I am still getting used to being with a personality that is new to me in the form of a romantic relationship. I don't think we have 2s in my family and 2 are not the most favorable either. I like the attention 2 give me that makes me feel special and that I matter. He is a sweet and wonderful guy, but so emotional at times. He does not like it when I want to get away (withdraw, which is viewed as rejection) to keep the peace. Is your sweetheart that way also?
Since you are a 4, doesn't it bother you when he wants to keep the peace and you want to discuss it with a little intensity at times? Does he get silent in the face of your anger? That drove my bestfriend (4w3) crazy when her peaceful boyfriend (9w1) did that also. He does look like a 5, but he smiles too much to be a 5 and a 1, but he keeps busy with his little routines and very thrifty, yet generous with what he have to offer. They have been together for over 3 years and to my amazement, they do bring out the best in each other. We were a support system that each of us would mediate conflicts whenever there is a conflict between any of us. I assurd the 4 that the 9 is not going any where, regardless of her imperfections or when she breaks up with him. lol
Her boyfriend is logical, so I can relate to him more on that level, while she relates to my boyfriend more because they are both emotional and more concerned about relationships. Relationships could interfer with other things, while her boyfriend and I focus on our little projects. Have you seen John's anger yet? How long did it took?
Thanks for reading my post. I hope I was not too syrupy. My boyfriend agrees with Epoxy that I do appear that way on the website. I did not mean to. Well, you can read my sponky stuff when I chestize Ps behavior. LOL That guy seems to be obsessed with me, haven't you noticed?
Flower Pagan
Flowers to you wonderful emotional creatures that enriches our world and help us to be more in touch with our own emotions.
Emily:
> Anyway, I am a 4 and John my boyfriend is a 9, and apparently 4 women marry 9 males most often!
> Interesting...
Epoxy
> That is interesting. Yes, the 4-9 coupling seems to be quite common. I can't remember if that's what HP said in her "Love and Work" book - do you know? I don't have the book any more.