Ultimately I will be rewarded for attempting the inconcievable: To pull a fellow human being "out of themselves(ego-persona-fear based) up to a higher level of being e.g. ESSENCE (psycho/spiritual wholeness) yeah, of course they always go screaming and kicking into the bright light of a benevolent reality......deep sigh...I am not looking for accolades or appreciation; just know that what I do,as Margaret, is out of a perverse LOVE of my fellow human beings...(nt) The nearly martyred Biff

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Posted by Biff on June 30, 2000 at 17:22:05:

In Reply to: You were horrible to her too. nt posted by Tiggy on June 29, 2000 at 20:38:37:

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: : : If this message really bothers you that bad - then just ask the moderators to remove it that's all.

: : : And yes, there is a reason why I phrased it the way I did - I did it so that it was not obvious to others outside of whom I was speaking to (about) so that I could get him to stop being mean to me without making himlook guilty in front of others.

: : : In other words I risked making myself look like an asinine 'disordered border whatever' fool idiot so I could get my message across by saving the recipient his "face".

: : : I know it's a high price to pay.

: : : But I still feel glad that I saved this person's face - because it's important to me.

: : : Now that you know this message was directed to someone *real* on the board in 'code' - you can please leave me alone now, thank you.
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Wouldn' it be easier to just say "I'm a manipulative, pushy prick"? Of course, if you said it that way, without the verbose hokey-pokey, your self-righteous justification would be no more. Dr. Jung Osing 03:07:47 07/01/00 (1)
- Oowie! Make the bad man go away.... Biff 16:12:09 07/01/00 (0)

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