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Posted by Diarmuid (194.125.205.96) on January 28, 2003 at 10:56:22:

In Reply to: To All 9Typers posted by 4w5 (205.188.208.7) on January 28, 2003 at 09:17:45:

Emily's given her full real life name and home state. Seeing as you're so hot on reciprocity, you are obviously going to do the same right now, aren't you?

> I'd like to know, gang your answers to these questions. Please be honest and spare the wisecracks, please. Speak what you feel.

> 1. Why do I want so much for Emily to accept my apology and especially for her to apologize?

> 2. What would I do if she apologized? Would I go away or would I want more? Bear in mind though that it must be a real apology and not a trick like "I apologize for whatever you thought". I mean an admission from Emily of some wrong on her part.

> Do you think that maybe I DON'T want this. Well then, why not test me? If I'm just looking to complain then let's see what happens if you denied me my rationale?

> Fair?

> 3. Should Emily apologize to me and accept my apology to her?

> Thank you all,

> K.B.

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Yes, in return for her apology. I'll give my full name and st. (152.163.189.168) 02:22:04 01/29/03 (2)
- she didn't ask for squat in return diarm nt (194.125.220.5) 04:55:13 01/29/03 (1)
  - No but you did, bucko K.B. (152.163.189.168) 08:10:29 01/29/03 (0)

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> Emily's given her full real life name and home state. Seeing as you're so hot on reciprocity, you are obviously going to do the same right now, aren't you? > > I'd like to know, gang your answers to these questions. Please be honest and spare the wisecracks, please. Speak what you feel. > > 1. Why do I want so much for Emily to accept my apology and especially for her to apologize? > > 2. What would I do if she apologized? Would I go away or would I want more? Bear in mind though that it must be a real apology and not a trick like "I apologize for whatever you thought". I mean an admission from Emily of some wrong on her part. > > Do you think that maybe I DON'T want this. Well then, why not test me? If I'm just looking to complain then let's see what happens if you denied me my rationale? > > Fair? > > 3. Should Emily apologize to me and accept my apology to her? > > Thank you all, > > K.B.

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