Actually

Posted by Margaret on October 31, 2000 at 15:22:50:

In Reply to: How bout "Finally a quality response" to "Finally a quality post"? (Go Mikko!) :):) posted by Margaret on October 31, 2000 at 14:50:39:

Actually, all I want is for you to stop fighting me on the 'sidelines' with your 'snide' 'sneaky' remarks like you constantly do.
If you have something to say to me - why can't you just say it normal, striaghtface, logical, decent, respectable, and straightforward to me like real adults do?
I've already tried this with you. I have posted decent, straightforward logical, respectable posts to you and all you do is ignore then - but instead continue to 'fight' me on the 'sides' - which gets nowhere, and solves nothing.
If you would just stop doing that - and just be more straight forward, responsible, upfront, decent, and respectable in life- things would go more smoothly for you in your life - not just with me- but with everyone else too.
Growth for the 4 is to stop blaming others, and start taking responsibility for yourself. Responsibility of ONE is the growth point for FOURs.

Although I already know I probably could have used a little less roughness with my initial response - I still agree with the fundamental premise of Mikko's above post:

You need to stop blaming others as not being interested or caring about you - but instead start to focus on them - and how much do you pay attention to and care about them.
Only then will things start to turn around for the better.
Good luck and keep that chin up.
-Marge

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