Interesting, deep women

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: : : Actually Dianna, I have met plenty of women who could get so deep and had such insight they "scared" me.{Not really, I greatly admired them} As I said to Cory, you are coming across women that {like men} have learnt to keep things light. I speculate introverted types may have only surface contact with others and may mistake what they see around them in people as the way these people really are. There are a lot more women out there like you then you may realize. K.B. : : : : : : : : : : : ******Even though I am a woman I have always not been able to tolerate how shallow most women are. I have found few women to relate to on my intelligence level. They all want to talk about their baby's name brand clothes, etc. etc. or their diamond rings (Gag!) I want to talk about philosophy and dealve deep into the human psyche. I have come to the somewhat tongue in cheek conclusion that I am a homosexual man in a woman's body :-) I hope none of the women take offense to my evaluation because I am just generalizing and there are women of character out there. : : : : {Charlie Brown Syndrome}. I dreamt of being a Rock star or athlete; people saw me {if at all} as a serious type of bookworm. : : : A Friendly Acquaintance at work typed our circle of workers' personality types -- but no, not the enneagram or the Myers-Briggs. He described me as "the introverted intellectual". He is an ExFP 6w7 himself and a self-described "all-around guy". This is very interesting because I am different people with different people. Put me with an attractive, friendly girl and suddenly I am much more outgoing and charming -- acting like a 3 or a 7. Put me with a boss and I'm friendly and hardworking like a 6. Get to know me intimately enough and I just might act as a 4. : : : : : : : > I discovered reading, thinking and the beauty and peace from taking long walks. I mean LONG walks, I'd go miles and miles nonstop for hour after hour. I learned to enjoy my own company, appreciate my humor and {subjective?} insights, and learned to like myself and not need to share anything with others or get their feedback. : : : I can enjoy my own company, mostly because I'm just so entertaining to myself (I love creating stories and jokes in my head) and I can split my personality off so it's like I'm talking to a whole other person. : : : : > In a place like where I work, bored people {most of the workers there are bored} become gossip mongers, trouble makers and fighters.My section is divided into cliques that dislike each other; I resisted this and let it be known from the beginning that I was "neutral" and here to work. So I get along with all, but get plenty of co-workers gossiping to me and trying to "sway" me. {And these are males doing much of this}.And there are many who want to know about me as well, like why do I dump so much, why am I so quiet, why am I so cool all the time, etc? : : : I guess you could say I am neutral, but I'm much more duplicitious. Everyone would think I'm on their side! At work, one guy Jeremy hates this other guy Carlos because Carlos is a bit bossy and rough. When I'm with Jeremy, I talk to him about Carlos behind his back. When I'm with Carlos, I play it cool with him and don't act antagonistic. Not that I AM taking sides, it's just I pretend I am on their side when I'm in fact neutral. I've done this in many situations. : : : But unlike you, nobody really wants to know me. : : : : : : : > I could go unfriendly, but this isn't my style either. The ones who want to "know" about me are predominantly the women there and I can't resist a smiling face and soft voice and all. Not that they are "interested" as they know I'm married, but I can't snub a friendly woman. So when they ask me questions, I make them laugh or if they confide{if anyone confides in me} I listen. I stop listening if the problems are always the same, if the talker doesn't do anything to change it, if I can't help someone who keeps repeating the same thing. : : : Yea, my behavior changes around women. I become more extraverted and friendly. But that's because I am hoping for the slim chance that they might like me and *gasp* become interested in me!!! =oO Which never happens. Really! The other day I was talking to this girl and I "felt" like we had a connection and were getting along great. Then I see her today and her "Hello" was the most drained, obligated Hello I've ever got! Seriously -- women are so fucked up. I think I'll become gay. Seriously, if I had a choice about my sexuality I'd be a flaming homo any day of the week. Men have all the qualities I like -- quick wit, intelligence, and high sex drive. It's sad to say but I've never met a woman with a PERSONALITY. They're all so vapid and so ALIKE it's hard to tell them apart. : : : : : -Cory

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