Re: Post Scriptum: the E4 way of drawing attention

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: : It's interesting that E4's seem to pretend to be introverted; so they can sit in a corner with sad eyes in a crowded room; but they absolutely want to be at the party! : They want to be the center of attension to, but can be to vulnurable to : handle the attension once they get it in their face. Ironically it's : the social subtype of fours that want attension most, but also got biggest : problems handling it once they get it. If not only that as you have implied : their "introvertedness" are more as a defence mechanism to hide how vulnurable : they are. : True introverts are typically agressive under lack of balance. Beeing vulnurable : mainly belongs to extrovert's, and because of this it kind of conflict's : with the general idea that fours are introvert's. But IN-s got their : SP- wannabe side, right Jan ? : Look at Michael Jackson, an exellent example on an SP wanna be. : (as a typical E5 would NOT; R5's want to keep there lives secret...); so when Ana says shes introverted it makes her exhibitionistic site even MORE weird. : I generally don't take a persons words as good fish if they say things like : that. But of course she can be introverted, and still want the world at : her feet's. I wonder how a very healthy four in emotional balance appears, : introverted or extroverted. I think it depends on the wing, simple enough. : AND: we tend to give her even more attention (just like Andy and I do now; were trapped too!!) : Actually I don't concider it that, just if she know about this typing. : Can't you post her a message Jan, ask if want to study the enneagram. : But I guess she got a counter or something that gives her info on how many : people reading her page, so if she got no responce she would probably : find something else to get attension with. : : Can Ana's style be compared to the flamboyant gay parades in Amsterdam and other cities in which they show off with weird erotic clothes? Eroticism as a means to escape from the dark feelings in your head to a state of imagined bliss? : : Jan : Never seen it, but I guess this gay parade thing is like demostrating to the world who you are. : Like beeing indifferent to what people should mean about it. I would view : it more as a sixish phenomena that a fourish. Together we are strong or something like that. : What she displays is more like a need of beeing evaluated, looked at, : admired, probably she are addicted to all the attension she get's, and : can't stop. It's probably not long until she is having sex live, just : for the kick of it. She probably first will do her boyfried felix, : then when the kick is over, she will eighter get in one more and make a bridge or : sandwitch, depending on the mood. What do you say about that Jan ? : Do you think I would buy cheap clothes if nobody saw it ? : Or would you use a dress at your picture if you did not liked the : impression it gives ? : About cars, Saab is not status car, Porche is for impotent men. : Just people who think they are better than others drive Saab...:) : The real stuff are a Ferrari, then a helicopter, then a private jetfly , : then climb mount everest, and you should be able to convince yourself : you are something, but unfortanatly it does not work. : Myself I would be happy driving a black corvette trough the desert of : Autralia. : Tell me do you got a small flower in your office you make a joint from : every once in a while ?

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