WHO WANTS TO MARRY A MULTI-MILLIONAIRE? tricky bride Darva Conger

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: : WHO WANTS TO MARRY A MULTI-MILLIONAIRE? tricky bride Darva Conger : WHO WANTS TO MARRY A MULTI-MILLIONAIRE?" bride Darva Conger has a wild secret life she's been trying to hide from America. Darva told TV viewers that she refused to sleep with husband Rick Rockwell because she would NEVER have sex with a man she'd just met. But an intensive investigation reveals that since her early teens, the 34-year-old blonde hasn't been accustomed to saying "no" to many men! Sources say the woman who wed Rockwell in front of more than 22 million viewers on the February 15 TV show: : .BEGAN GOING to sex orgies when she was still in high school. : .SLEPT WITH two brothers at the same time. : .ENDURED BEATINGS from her racist father because she routinely dated black men. : "I laughed when I saw Darva on TV saying she wouldn't sleep with a guy she'd just met," former classmate Matt Maestas told. "I've seen her at orgies out in the desert where she slept with as many guys as she could!" In a TV interview eight days af ter the televised wedding, Darva told "Good Morning America" host Diane Sawyer: "I would never consider having sexual relations with anyone I had just met." She also said: "I have worked my whole life to be a credible person ...I'm religious and I know it's going to inflame many people, but if I'm not married before a preacher I am not married before God." But a friend from her school days declared: "When Darva attended high school in the early 1980s, she was the furthest thing from the shy blushing bride type she's pretending to be now. She was known as 'Darva the Slut.' " And former longtime lover Cassius Clay Harris, who went to school with Darva in Barstow, Calif., told: "Darva wasn't honest on television. "I estimate that when she was in high school, she slept with around 100 guys. "I first met her when she was 14. I was the school football star, and although I'm black, a lot of white girls wanted to date me. "Darva was four years younger than me. She was thin and had no boobs. "Her best friend, Amy, began calling me, saying that Darva wanted to meet me. "When I asked around, I found that Darva had been with three or four guys from school who were friends of mine. At first I told Darva she was too young for me. But finally, I took her home from school. When we got to my house, she came straight into the bedroom with me. We did it. "She told me that dating black guys caused her problems at home. Her father hated blacks and would beat her un-mercifully for dating them. "I've seen her with black eyes, cuts and bruises from where her daddy beat her up. Sometimes he whipped her with his belt. "Darva would also get beaten up at school by black girls who were jealous that all the black boys were chasing the white blonde. "While I was at school, I protected Darva (this is the survival mechanism working for the E6 character; JdB). But after I left, she was twice beaten up by a gang of black girls. 'But Darva was so crazy, she wouldn't quit. She would sneak over to my house after dark, then climb through my bed- room window to have sex with me. "One time she got drunk with me and three other guys at my house. "My little brother Michael slipped into the bedroom with Darva. He was only 14 at the time. He came out grinning. "I went into the bed- room and Darva was lying there naked." Darva's schoolmate Matt Maestas, 37, said: "I used to organize beer keg parties out in the desert and sometimes there'd be 600 kids there. "There'd be a lot of wild sex and Darva would be having sex with guy after guy. "One time I saw her do it with two brothers at once." Darva's friend from school disclosed: "When she went on to Barstow College, she lived with four wealthy Arab guys who were attending the college. It was 1984 and 1985. She worked her way through the group, dating and sleeping with one and moving on to another. "Darva was incredibly ambitious. "She longed to be a model and an actress. She kept telling me, 'I'm going to be famous some- day." Darva did model in college when she posed for a poster advertising Zima beer. "She relished the opportunity to pose in a bikini," said a classmate. Darva's first love Cassius Clay Harris, meanwhile, left Barstow to attend college but returned to his hometown, got married and had two children. And when the marriage didn't work out, he began dating Darva again, disclosed Harris, 38. "She told me she was in love with me and wanted to marry me. She told me she wanted to have my child. "I told her, 'Baby, I'm not the one for you. I already have two children.' 'After I told her there was no future for us, Darva told me, 'I've decided to go into the service. I've got to get away from Barstow to get any self-respect for myself.' " But wild times continued to follow Darva after she joined the military. While serving at Hili Air Force Base near Salt Lake City in 1992, she had an affair with a doctor at the base hospital, a fellow servicewoman said. In 1994, Darva was in an Air Force Reserve unit in St. Louis and told friends she was dating a professional hockey player. Then four years ago, Cassius Clay Harris ran into Darva in a local bar, he disclosed. "Boy; had she changed. She'd obviously had a boob job. She said she was working as an ER nurse at a hospital. "She told me, 'I'm dating a paramedic.' "She walked home with me and sat and talked for a couple of hours. But I got unsettled when Darva seemed to be coming on to me. "I told her, 'My two children are my life. I don't have room for anyone else.' "She'd just told me she'd finally met a nice guy. I didn't want anything to start up again between us. "The next time I saw her she was getting married on TV!" : : ++++ comments by Jan: : When looking to dr. Oldham's description of the extreme variants of the'devoted/dependent'character style we read something which reminds me of the dependent and 'slutty' character of Marlyn Monroe. We could nickname it the the Calimero-syndrome: : 'They experience themselves as helpless, weak, empty and inferior. By attaching themselves to another person they gain the strength and self-exteem to survive...a persuasive and excessive need to be taken care of that leads to submissive and clinging behavior...difficulty expressing disagreement with others (wishes) because of fear of losing support or approval...they go to excessive lenghts to obtain nurturance and support from others, to the point of VOLUNTEERING to do things that are unpleasant.... She feels uncomfortable or helpless when alone...urgently seeks another relationship as a source of care and support when another close relationship ends...' : I've once met an E6 woman with 3 children who was in the proces of divorce and she seemed to be able to go to bed with any man. : Most enneagrammists would label this character style. Pointers to this style for Darva: : - affinity with religion (source of security) : - affinity with the military (source of group security and clear hierarchical structure) : - affinity with marriage and getting children (most E3's are not so fond of this) : Also typical for the inferior feeling E6 is the tendency to unconsciously entice not protection but agression from characters (Darva's father, youth at school) like E8 who attack psychological weakness. E3's are not so likely to experience this dynamics; they are more assertive. : I've once met an E6 woman with 3 children who was in the proces of divorce and she seemed to be able to go to bed with any man. I felt pity for her; she was so easy to take advantage off. However I know of an E6 woman who has uses her sexual charm to exploit religious organisations and individuals alike; lending money and forgetting to pay back, asking for help and services. The root of all this are deep feelings of insecurity. : E6's can sometimes be very ambitious and hard working, and E3's can be very nervous at important moments as well as slutty for career purposes; so I guess there must be a metamorphosis from E6 to E3 in the continuum landscape of character styles. Both styles can show tricky self-centered deceptiveness. : Any comments? : Jan

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