a Fatal Attraction reference? seeing this hurts my heart


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Posted by Cecil on December 15, 1999 at 14:02:14:

In Reply to: Re: Let us choose the best ten movies movies... posted by DEECEE on December 14, 1999 at 17:34:08:

IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER:

: Deer Hunter
: The Great Santini
: Streetcar Named Desire
: Godfather
: Scarface
: The Last Detail
: Apocalypse Now
: The Sting
: Cool Hand Luke
: Easy Rider

: Fatal Attraction comes to mind now for some reason...even tho it disgusted me at the time...

Why did you write have to write this?
Why did you have to make a reference to this film?
Why did you do this?
I gave up my whole image and reputation to end this in your favor.
I sacrificed the only identity I have, myself, to give you upper hand, ending with me getting help, and you continuing on without me, yet, I come back for a quick monitor-fair-'play' check and I find you making this reference to this movie, most likely creating the image of Glenn Close as 'me' to others on here, as if I would stoop to her level in real life.
Why did you do this?
DEECEE, it hurts me to see you write this.
I am a human being with feelings.
So, I made a mistake, that of liking you.
I apologized for it and said I will move on with my life like you requested.
I said I would no longer continue my fixations.
I am doing everything you requested and will continue to do so.
Yet, I come back to monitor fair play after my leaving, and find something like this posted.
Why did you have to write this?
You know I am not violent.
You know I would not destroy anyones's family, career, health, future, most especially their life.
You know who I am, what kind of person I am.
Sure, I get emotional, but when have I ever threatened anyone withvionece?
When?
That hurts me to see this reference made to a character in a movie who was inclined to commit violent acts and crimes against another human being as if I could actually think of doing something like that.
That hurts.
It makes me cry.
It hurts.
Please don't make this reference.
I am not violent.
I never was.
I never will be.
And I would appreciate it if you would discontinue 'alluding' people into thinking elsewise. That's simply not true.
And it's not fair.

And before I go for my appointment, I want to say something to you personally that I would otherwise like to say through e-mail, but am not able to.
I suggest you tell the same people in your life to please live according to the same high standards of not purpotedly creating damage to other innocent people's reputation and image in eyes of public as well.
But if your 'unfavorabe other' & allies, et al, are trying out the same kind of 'smear' image campaign by trying to portray you as 'potentially not acting within decent constraints of behaviour', that you call them on it.
Call them on their cheap tactic, DEECEE, don't let anyone get away with portraying you as unfavorably 'prone to acting improper'.
That's not fair, that's not true. Period.
Call them on it.
No one should let anyone get away with deviously 'provoking' others into looking somehow 'unfavorably'.
To let people get away with conducting such harmful, inaccurate, mean, sad, hurtful reference-allusions to otherwise 'not favorable' characters in movie plots is simply continuing the cycle of committing pyschological violence onto another human being to thrive upon.
Do as I have.
Stop the cycle.
Call them on it.
Get them to stop.
I know you will.
You're smart, you're strong.
I know you always end up doing the right thing, doing what's good for others.
I must now go to my appointment like I said I would.
And not stay to chat or write on the computer like I said I would discontinue.
We're doing good so far.
One step at a time.
Hang in there, friend.
Take care.
Friends,
(me)

: Best Actor: Robert Duvall...hands down
: Best Actress: While she's no heavyweight...always liked that Susan Sarandon..(sucker for big eyes)

: OK
: DEECEE




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