Re: Janet Jackson

Posted by P on June 30, 2000 at 20:51:00:

In Reply to: Janet Jackson posted by Jan den Breejen on June 30, 2000 at 16:58:05:

She also enjoys coffee enemas.

Never accept a cappuchino from this woman.

BTW I think her face is quite homely.

: Janet Jackson and her 'Al Bundy-esque sexual focus'

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: What's the reason that Leisurely Style characters seem to have a special focus on sex? Bill Clinton and Kevin Costner are well known for their untamable promiscuity. Now the Rene Elizondo, the former hubby of Janet Jackson discloses some things about another person I think could be Leisurely style: Janet Jackson:

: - Janet is bisexual and a desire for pretty woman
: - Janet has an insatiable sexual appetite
: - He claims she has very kinky preferences including a 'love' for pain
: - In his new book he details why she enjoys dressing like a slut
: - She wears 'unbelievable outfits' to sleep each night
: - She uses sex to get what she wants
: - She has bedded a surprising list of Hollywood men

: Since in the US you are sued mercilessly when you disclose or publish things that are not true; let's assume they are true. Could it be that Leisurely Style persons love the 'little comforts of life' so much that they simply can't stand not consuming them; and that at the same time sex can be used to get things from other people; an art in which Leisurely Styled people have specialized (suckers for pampering by looking cute, or by looking pityful or begging or otherwise letting the other person's heart melt and give the 'goodies' to the Leisurely person.)

: Here is an interesting explanation; suggested by Claudio Naranjo, citing Irvin Yalom's masterpiece 'In Search of a Dreamer' about a case of an E9-ish person who tels the psychiatrist:

: 'Sex is at the root of everything. Isn't that what you fellows always say. Well, in my case you might be right. Take a look at this….(showing private research relating periods of depression and migrane to enhanced sexual activity)..- for the last twelve months my moods have been totally controlled by sex. If I have a good sex with my wife, the world seems bright. If not, bingo! Depression and headaches!'

: So Naranjo points at the narcotizing effect a night full of sex has on the mind; and since E9's need some kinda mental self-deadening sex; just like drugs can be a source for fulfilling this need to narcotize their 'little sensitive selves' (Oldham). My own experience with Leisurely Style women is that they are great lovers because they can so easily forget everything else when they are busy with sex; they just dream away and stay in trance. But like with all things they consume (food to name just one of them) Leisurely Style persons are quite sensitive to taste; they like things or they are (easily) repulsed by it. They can say things like 'this doesn't taste quite good ENOUGH' (for their 'sensitive sense-organs'.) Food is really the other important narcotizer of Leisurely Styled /E9's; they just HAVE to eat things every few hours.

: What strikes me when looking at Janet is that she has a 'wild' quality; just consuming the things she want to without thinking much about the possible consequences. However when comparing it to the Adventurous Style or the Borderline; the Leisurely person is quite mellow in what he or she does; and it doesn't do that much1 harm to other people.
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: Jan

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• Leisurelys and Sex The Kinky Leisurely Cory 00:01:07 07/01/00 (3)
  • Re: Leisurelys and Sex P 01:17:22 07/01/00 (2)
    • Re: Leisurelys and Sex Jan 12:02:47 07/02/00 (1)
      • You sure you wanna talk sex and partners on this board? Carmen 08:23:34 07/03/00 (0)

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