Posted by Ev on June 23, 1999 at 13:54:52:
In Reply to: to Amanda.. now this is a funny name ;) and ev ;) posted by Mustafa on June 23, 1999 at 13:15:34:
: hellow,
: heyo , really great to hear that you're 4/ENFP Amanda.. With your 5 wing
: we should be alike ( 4/7/5 ).. great ! ;)
: now before i wrote something serious , i have to tell you that your name
: has some meaning in Turkish , funny one ehe.. Nothing bad just funny..
: i'd love to translate that , my english is not good enough for that..
: ehe.. nice ..;)
: and you might think i am lying but ev has a meaning in turkish too !
: it means " home " .. ;p
: anyways , can u please tell me about those wing stuff.. shortly.. i just
: thought i can't be a 7 if my wings should be close to 4.. And Ev says
: she is 4 despite her 9 tendencies..
: the truth is , i am 7 as long as i dont feel like rejected.. I think
: being rejected is the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone.
: When i feel , i dont belong, i just leave it , feeling that classic 4
: stuff intensely, till i find someone who wont reject me in any way then
: i become my 7 .. boring and weird things in fact.
: God, i am bored now..
: enough for today. i might write again. ;)
Mustafa, these worries about rejection and the pain it brings sound very 4'ish. While I'm not saying that 7's wouldn't be bothered by rejection on SOME level I don't think it's one of the things they're greatly concerned with. This fear sounds much more likely to be centered in a 4w3 type personality. Is this a possibility??
Ev (home, home on the range)