Posted by Hal on June 24, 1999 at 09:26:30:
In Reply to: Help is on the way!! posted by Ev on June 23, 1999 at 20:03:51:
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: : well,
: : i dont know.. itS been only 2 days since i've been into this enigma thing.
: : ;D but i read all of the the meaning of numbers and , just thought a
: : 7 could also be rejected if he was mainly 4 ..
: : may be i should tell my ratings..
: : 4 25
: : 7 21
: : 5 19
: : these are the highest..
: : enlighten me with yor wisdom Ev, please.. ehe ehe
: Mustafa, you are more than likely a 4w5. 4's, particularly when young, often walk on wild side of life in an attempt to deny their vulnerabilities. This is where they manifest the behavior that gets them mistaken for 7's. You seem fairly 4'ish in your other posts and I can't say that I've noticed any 7's resembling 4's. As to wings, I'm inclined to agree that your wing type will be one of the numbers on either side of your main type. For instance you could be a 4w3 or a 4w5 but not a 4w7 but this isn't carved in stone anywhere and is debated occasionally on this board. Hope this helps!
: Ev
I have known some 7's who were at times afraid of rejection and afraid of being alone. I think it happens more with the iNtuitive 7's (such as ENFP) than the Sensing 7's. It's the Sensing ones that are more likely to be the "party animal" and "social butterfly" types. iNtuitive 7's seem more prone to depression from thinking about things while the Sensing ones have an easier time masking the pain with activity and new experiences.
I find that there are many parallels between 7 and 4--we can both get bored easily and can tend towards gluttony and excess because we're unsatisfied. At our best, I think we're both good at many things and can expernience intense emotional highs.
Oh, yeah, this was about rejection... This issue seems to have to do more with your past and how you grew up than with what type you are. 4's may dwell on it more, but people of all types can fear rejection. We just deal with it in different ways, so this may be a key to determining if you identify more with 4 or 7.
- Hal -