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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive 'Why', you ask?Posted by Amanda :) on June 26, 1999 at 11:59:39: In Reply to: Re: Hey Derf.... posted by Derf on June 25, 1999 at 15:18:38: : How typically off-the-wall of you. One question, though: what leads you to wonder? : Happy trails (I'm taking a break from "Smiles"; you can have a monopoly on that one for a while :), : Derf Hi Derf :) What leads me to ask? Nothing earth-shattering, I'm afraid.... I often discuss the goings-on at the board with friends (who aren't on the net - but are very interested in the enneagram, and others who are on the net around the world that I correspond with via email) and when we come to discussing points that you have raised - we run the gammit from 'he' to 'she' to 'it'. As I said before, it really makes no difference in a practical sense ie. a female's perspective holds no more or less authority than does a male's - it's all the same to me - I just feel uncomfortable referring to you as an 'it'....it seems somehow disrespectful. And if you're not a guy called Fred (somehow I don't think so - but everyone else does) - how did you come up with the name Derf? Or is it your real name? So....are you gonna tell? smiles
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