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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Heavy on the fixations....Posted by jason on July 01, 1999 at 02:58:06: In Reply to: Heavy on the fixations.... posted by Amanda :( on June 30, 1999 at 14:00:06: ok. everyone on earth has fucken problems. believe me. wat's good about us is that we bounce back. public humiliation. it seems like you don't trust yourself. the fact that you have fears and your trying to over come them is awesome; it can be done...i over came panic attacks..(along with a bit of agoraphobia, hypochondria, and performance anxiety...all that shit). went to a therapist for panic attacks....found out about myself by talking to her. know yourself...you could go to analysis. sinc you have an objective observer and something objective to put your attention on. bang. your good. the fact that in your head you don't care about wat others think doesn't mean shit.....i was the same way. you have to realize in your heart. you know wat, from now on, put your attention on who you feel is criticizing you....do they really look like they are. when you look, you probably won't even care, this being in your heart. that humiliation thing is all in your head...it's not true....ppl really don't give a rat's ass...they're too busy protecting themselves of humiliation also. if you pay attention and really look, at ppl, there worse of than you...and this is all ppl from types 1-9.
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