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Re: And now for today's bombshell....

Re: And now for today's bombshell....


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Posted by Derf on July 04, 1999 at 02:27:57:

In Reply to: And now for today's bombshell.... posted by Amanda on July 03, 1999 at 03:35:35:

: Greeting fourdom

: Seems this is a big week for me in the bombshell department - I don't know about 4's being drawn to the tragic....seems that the tragic has come and set up camp on my front lawn....

: I ended my marriage of 19 years yesterday.

How shocking to hear!

: I'm not sad.
: I'm not glad.
: I'm not angry.
: I'm not scared.
: I'm not worried.

: I just am.

It seems as though you have no appreciable feelings, positive or negative, about the marriage. Or maybe you're trying to convince yourself thus. I hope you made the right decision!

: I'm sure I'll have some questions particular to the '4' perspective soon enough....hope you'll be forthcoming with your collective wisdom.

Do you feel you're in a dilemma? Of course, this would depend upon your confidence and resolution, and the circumstances. I cannot safely assume one way or the other, but I get the sense that you may be.

: But for now....
: Amanda

Glad to hear you're content. At least relatively to some people who break up this late in the game. :)

Though your use of that little, insignificant word "tragic" gives me pause. Oh well... if you want to share more, please do.

Take care,

Derf


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