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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Safe in the pastures!Posted by Elk on July 10, 1999 at 18:07:31: In Reply to: Safe in the pastures! posted by Ev on July 10, 1999 at 13:27:13: : Hello fellow 4's!! : After much reading, soul searching, agonizing, and pestering my poor wife to death I've come to the conclusion that I am a 4. I don't know whether this is a good or a bad thing but have just accepted that it *is*. The thing most amazing to me about this whole process I've just gone through was that it mattered to me as much as it did. Geez, if I couldn't ever make a decision on E-type I'd still be every bit the human that I am so what's the big deal? But, it was a big deal so go figure. :) : The things that most swayed my decision had to do with how I am SOOO attracted to the unavailable and how I've always been envious of other's relationships just knowing that I was missing *something* in my own. To a great extent I've been able to better deal with these emotions as I've grown older but I'm fully aware that they're still with me. : I've found that I have a very strong 5 wing so I guess I had best start working on building up the 3 side of my personality. This is a project that calls for a great deal of initial procrastination so the next millenium will see a much more success oriented Ev. Watch out world, here I come! :) : Ev
Elk
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