4's and conflict. (Sorry about the double posting last time)

Posted by Sootica on September 24, 2000 at 17:47:43:

I've actually been reading this board for a reallyreallyreally long time, but today is the first time I've
ever posted anything on it. I'd like to say that this place is incredibly interesting! (the only reason
I've been a lurker for so long is cause I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to post regularly). What I like is
the way everyone lets their personalities shine through, and is able to reveal so much of themselves
even though this is only a text medium. I really like it when people have a lot of strength in character
and aren't afraid to let it show - especially cause in this society people are encouraged to be
sociable and yet to keep themselves hidden. What you get is a lot of gossip and people who can
talk for hours without actually saying *anything*!

One thing I noticed on this board is that there is frequently a lot of conflict and hurt feelings, or
discussions involving controversial topics which generate strong emotions. This reminds me of
something I've experienced myself - a push and pull when it comes to wanting my life to be
interesting and dramatic and at the same time not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings or cause trouble.
I get bored with my life sometimes if everything is going evenly, so my desire to stir things up conflicts with my
with my desire not to bother everyone else. Usually I resolve this by just not doing anything and
retreating into my head, where I can cause as much inner turmoil as I want without affecting anyone
else. ;) Usually I'll take the mature way out when solving a problem, while secretly wishing I could be
immature since immature people often have the most interesting lives.

Can anyone relate to this, or am I just applying my personal problems to the board in general?

Follow Ups:

• Re: 4's and conflict. (I relate) W. 21:34:04 09/27/00 (0)
• ) Inner Harmony K.B. 02:32:30 09/27/00 (0)
• Re: 4's and conflict. heatherb 13:32:47 09/25/00 (0)
• Re: 4's and conflict. (Sorry about the double posting last time) K.B. 19:48:34 09/24/00 (0)

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