Posted by K.B. on September 27, 2000 at 02:32:30:
In Reply to: 4's and conflict. (Sorry about the double posting last time) posted by Sootica on September 24, 2000 at 17:47:43:
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: One thing I noticed on this board is that there is frequently a lot of conflict and hurt feelings, or
: discussions involving controversial topics which generate strong emotions. This reminds me of
: something I've experienced myself - a push and pull when it comes to wanting my life to be
: interesting and dramatic and at the same time not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings or cause trouble.
: I get bored with my life sometimes if everything is going evenly, so my desire to stir things up conflicts with my
: with my desire not to bother everyone else. Usually I resolve this by just not doing anything and
: retreating into my head, where I can cause as much inner turmoil as I want without affecting anyone
: else. ;)
> It's better, Sootica to try to achieve inner harmony rather than cause inner turmoil.