Margaret, I was wondering...

Posted by Emily on October 28, 2000 at 18:13:52:

In Reply to: I feel horrible and guilty and sick to my stomach now ! I can't stop this feeling! posted by margaret on October 28, 2000 at 16:16:09:

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...have you noticed a pattern in yourself regarding this board and your posts on it? You always say something, make some sort of negative comment, which
you later (later, as in 5 or 10 minutes) apologize for your words, and say you're not feeling well, and that youre under a lot of stress and etc. Then, the person
forgives you, and you repost again telling how you are "so stupid" and should learn to control your outbursts. It happens almost everytime you come on the
board...almost every post of yours!

I was wondering if this is how you are in person. Do you say mean things to people, and then right away take it back and say you're sorry for offending them?
And then...repeat the process again the very same day?! It goes against some sort of rationale, I think. If you do something once, and you say you have
learned from it and see that you should stop, then why do you keep doing it? Every time!

I don't mean for this to be a mean post, and I don't mean to hurt your feelings, I'm just wondering if you observe and notice this behavior in you, and if you
know why you do it.

-Emily, wondering

Follow Ups:

• Emily, I, too, was wondering... Margaret 20:36:13 10/28/00 (20)
  • Maggiemay, What the sam hell are you talking about? Diarmuid 08:08:52 10/31/00 (15)
    • diarmyboy, do tell, what indeed are YOU talking about? ? 22:46:27 11/02/00 (0)
    • Just sign up for a dating class, you might get better luck with women next time with better social skills . 17:39:39 11/02/00 (0)
    • **YOU** diarmy?????? - I **KNEW** YOU'D FINALLY "COME TO" diarmy! GOOD BOY diarmy! KEEP WORKING ON IT! :):):) Mother Margaret 14:26:09 10/31/00 (12)
      • swinging back down again... familiar 16:49:55 10/31/00 (11)
        • familiar = Brain C. it's obvious 19:03:52 10/31/00 (10)
          • nice try but try again not that you'll believe me anyway 21:19:06 10/31/00 (9)
            • how about Freddie? ok 08:16:44 11/01/00 (8)
              • i'm not a regular here so you'll be wrong no matter who you guess nt just give it up 20:43:50 11/01/00 (7)
                • you have such wonderful social skills oh my god 23:58:51 11/01/00 (1)
                  • most losers do of course 23:59:49 11/01/00 (0)
                • if you're not a regular that means you don't know what you're talking about, so go away and stop picking on innocent strangers who have done nothing to you, loser then go away and pick on someone you *know*, loser (duh) 23:23:51 11/01/00 (3)
                  • like i said...straight down sad to watch, actually 05:04:13 11/02/00 (2)
                    • how come you enjoy talking about yourself so much? question 12:46:49 11/02/00 (0)
                    • yes, you have described yourself exactly...straight down sadder to watch 12:44:42 11/02/00 (0)
                • well, aren't you cute? you are a loser, that's all 21:12:30 11/01/00 (0)
  • Hi Margaret =o) ... Emily 21:09:19 10/28/00 (3)
    • Re: Hi Emcats ... Margaret 21:47:50 10/28/00 (0)
    • Emily: the ultimate target of neurotic Sixes! Cory [nt] 21:40:46 10/28/00 (1)
      • So, Cory, when are you ever going to finally get the guts enough to ask her out? nt Margaret 21:49:31 10/28/00 (0)
• Emily... :-) 18:31:56 10/28/00 (1)
  • *Raises Glass!* Emily [nt] 21:09:46 10/28/00 (0)

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