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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Emily, I, too, was wondering...Posted by Margaret on October 28, 2000 at 20:36:13: In Reply to: Margaret, I was wondering... posted by Emily on October 28, 2000 at 18:13:52: ...have you noticed a pattern in yourself regarding certain people on this board and your behaviour with them? You say things about bananas and candles, which you later then try to cover up by deleting their posts after you lead them on by teasing then leaving offline. Then, after they get upset by your misleading behaviour with them, they try to post to rectify the situation, and you keep deleting their posts as if you never did a thing to them. It happens everytime you don't want someone to post something about you that you don't think makes you look "innocent" as you want to look. I was also wondering if this is how you are in person too. Do you say misleading things to people, and then right away delete their posts so that no one can find out what you really do and say to them behind the scenes? And then...repeat the process again the very same day?! It goes against some sort of rationale, I think. If you do something once, and in your case, fail to admit publicly what your doing (unlike at least I have with my flaws), then why do you keep doing it? Every time! I don't mean for this to be a mean post, either, Emily, and I don't mean to hurt your feelings, either, Emily, I too was just wondering if you observe and notice this behavior in you, and if you know why you do it. Margaret, wondering
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