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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Hi Margaret =o) ...Posted by Emily on October 28, 2000 at 21:09:19: In Reply to: Emily, I, too, was wondering... posted by Margaret on October 28, 2000 at 20:36:13: Question Number One: ...have you noticed a pattern in yourself regarding certain people on this board and your behaviour with them? Sure! There are some people who I normally give serious responses too, some I joke around with more, etc. etc. Comment: You say things about bananas and candles, which you later then try to cover up by deleting their posts after you lead them on by teasing then leaving offline. If I said anything to them, it was in private. So, you were the banana poster? You know, that caused a lot of people's posts to be deleted on the main board, due to a bug in the script when you posted so many messages at once. I wonder if Becca knows that... Comment: Then, after they get upset by your misleading behaviour with them, they try to post to rectify the situation, and you keep deleting their posts as if you never did a thing to them. Could you please be more specific? Perciever never emailed me to explain further what I did to him, and apparently I did something to you too, so could you email me at x-emcats@novia.net to talk about it in the appropriate place? And I also don't "try" to look innocent, and I'm sorry you feel that way. Question: I was also wondering if this is how you are in person too. Do you say misleading things to people, and then right away delete their posts so that no one can find out what you really do and say to them behind the scenes? People don't post things in real life. Also, I'm not like that on here, so I can't be like that in person either. Question/Comment: And then...repeat the process again the very same day?! It goes against some sort of rationale, I think. If you do something once, and in your case, fail to admit publicly what your doing (unlike at least I have with my flaws), then why do you keep doing it? I don't need to admit publicy to anything, because I didn't do anything. Admitting to something I didn't do doesn't go against any sort of rationale. And I am more than ready to admit my flaws. I do it all the time. Comment/Question: I don't mean for this to be a mean post, either, Emily, and I don't mean to hurt your feelings, either, Emily, I too was just wondering if you observe and notice this behavior in you, and if you know why you do it. It's quite alright, we all have our bad days. And you don't have to worry, Margaret, it didn't hurt my feelings. =o) Love,
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