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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: maybe that attititude is....Posted by Mikko on November 05, 2000 at 09:20:05: In Reply to: maybe that attititude is.... posted by Excalibur on November 05, 2000 at 00:30:58:
On average, my relationships have begun at a bar counter or a sidetable and ended when I've put my shoes/boots on and walked out through her door. Tell me, to which point I should've included time to learn to know her or letting her to know me? Considering that more than half of that time has been just talking, about any and every issue there is. When I'm out there getting know to a person, I don't shy away from any subject. When I'm engaged in a conversation, I'm not very self-conscious or think "OMG what is she thinking about me" or just rule her out because she disagrees with me on something. I like to let her know what I'm like, avoiding being rude and being considerate of her. I expect the same from others. But I suppose it's too much for most people, because they don't even know who they are themselves. You probably didn't know it, but when I have a feeling that a relationship can lead somewhere, I become incredibly patient and have a lot of staying power. BTW, tell me, why didn't you reply to my 'explanations coming yer way...ok' message? After all, I made some more important points in that message and the one you replied to was just random commenting.
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