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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: a question about lovePosted by jason on August 19, 1999 at 01:03:17: In Reply to: Re: a question about love posted by Matches on August 19, 1999 at 00:29:52: losing yourself with someone....if i'm getting your question right...is being dependent on them....clingy. loving someone is deeply caring about the individual person (no image of a wife, husband, gf, or bf)....just the person. you feel the other's hurt; her joy. all that stuff. she becomes a part of you...not all of you. picture two circles overlapping 1/2 and 1/2 of each other. each circle is his/her own individual person; the parts that overlap is the love.
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