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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Be careful....Posted by Summer on August 19, 1999 at 10:07:35: In Reply to: How do you deal with anger? posted by Will on August 19, 1999 at 09:08:09: On the other hand, I wouldn't blow them out of your lives if your expectations are unreasonable. Fours are known for not getting their expectations met; we set other people up to fail us. This is not healthy & you can wind up pushing everybody out of your life. I had a four friend who did this - and I'm sure she suffers great regret, whenever she's not dwelling on all terrible hurts we inflicted on her.... (sarcasm) No, seriously, are their offenses forgiveable? Are you being over reactive or oversensitive? Can there be a way to work it out, to forgive? Maybe in time? Have you talked to them about why you are upset? I would be careful about kicking people out of your life who you may miss terribly afterwards. We fours are so good at this.... Think carefully.... ;-)
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