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About being in a negative environment with others


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Posted by Margaret on November 29, 2000 at 19:34:51:

I don't know about others, but for me, to be around, either talking with, or even just listening to (or reading posts of) people who say and talk extremely negative and cynical and - well - just really negative - it's so disheartening for me.
I can't take it for that long.
I find it personally just mortifying when being around listening to people currently caught up in so much negativity and pessimism - I find it difficult to stand hearing it or taking it too long.
It has a very bad and unhealthy negative affect on me. And it's very hard to shake off. It ends up making me feel rally bad afterwards too.

It's just better to stop being around or conversing with others who have such negative dark views of the world.

I need to learn how to keep remembering how to just walk away - more earlier more quicker - from such devastating extreme pessimistic negativity from now on.

It has terribly harsh bad affect on me afterwards. It really bring me down big time after being around all that for too long.

I must remember to stop conversing with others who are too negative for me and especially let go the idea that I can convince them to change their mind. I can't change other people's POV.

Much better just to ignore them and walk away.

And also important to make sure to keep company with all those who are positive to be around - not negative - but positive - this is very important - and essential for good healthy self-esteem too.




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