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Posted by Areia on May 01, 2001 at 00:40:44:

In Reply to: Re: I haaaaate ooother Foooooouuurs.... posted by pork ^(oo)^ on April 30, 2001 at 04:08:32:

: : ...and while I know I can't /really/ help him, he is becoming a psychic vampire.

: Did you get that term from The Satanic Bible?

Nopes.


: : I can't continue to have my energy sapped but it is nearly impossible to get through to him....and I care about him so deeply, so empathically, that I hate to see him in such pain.

: Have you told him this? Try telling him you're going to leave him alone for a while due to his "black-hole-ness" of depression, which is *really* getting you down, and you don't like this. That is, if you've considered that before.

I'm afraid that it will send him further off the deep end. Criticism of any kind-- and he perceives nearly everything I say as critical-- makes him shrivel up into a little ball. (sigh) -_-;;

: : Arrrrrgggghhh!! It's very hard seeing someone who is a "mirror" of yourself sometimes...any insight people have is appreciated, though.

: What more do you need to know? Um... focus on happy persons and a happy hobby, happy girl. :)


Um...hey? I'm happy? Cool! I didn't know I was happy. ^.^

I'm going to France...that's happy, isn't it? :} If only I was going to England, though...oh, alas, alack, I'm such a Four, oh "alas a lass is what I lack I lack a lass alas alack. :}

-- Areia, perpetually wacky these days.





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