Re: dilemma with an INTJ

Posted by Perciever on May 15, 2001 at 15:24:38:

In Reply to: dilemma with an INTJ posted by caleb on May 15, 2001 at 08:45:40:

: Ok being a 27 Infp 4w5...the 25 yr old INTJ woman in my life I feel is taking advantage of me and manipulating me. I read her journal this morning ( i know and i feel horrible but i had to know i was that desperate) I work 2 jobs, while she stays home..well the skinny is this ..here is what she put.."god help me find my true mate and help him to sing with me and laugh with me and tease me have it so that i dont have to work and If caleb is the one have him show me these things".. Ok I move heaven and Earth for this girl, she has no idea how good she has it..lately i havent been able to be intimate with her becasue she turns me off with her militant attitude..sometimes it hard for me to mr perfect with 2 stressful jobs and no rest or time for myself..So would you all say were doomed..were seeing a relationship counslor..but just yeterday she put that in her journal and also added..and i have noticed her looking around at other guys...advise anyone....are we doomed are we doomed...

****It is clear what she wants. What do you want?

Let me tell you this...when two people really love each other they accept each other more or less how they are.
They may help each other on small stuff to meet their standards but the big stuff should be bore by both people.

If I had a woman that lazy and dictating she would not last very long. But then I dont know your whole story and
their are two sides to EVERY story.

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