Posted by Cory on May 29, 2001 at 16:12:26:
In Reply to: Areia, who never posts, decides to whine and complain... posted by Areia on May 29, 2001 at 02:09:35:
Honestly, where is your problem? He's not close to you anymore? Big deal. Move on. People are a dime a dozen. Who gives a fuck if he's a closet transvestite homosexual...he's just SOME GUY from the past and it's time for you to move on with your life.
Of course this maybe easy for me to say (5w4 INTP), you know, since I don't have to face that dreaded Fourish dependence. You're graduating soon -- focus on the future. Graduation is always a grand time for all! =oD
-Cory
: ...because she can.
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: Actually, I feel bad that I never contribute anything truly interesting to this board, and I apologize. Someday I'd like to be a more active member, but..
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: Anyway, I'm having a major envy attack and guess I could use some Fourish empathy. The other Four I wrote about awhile back, my ex-boyfriend the 4w3 (I'm a 4w5), is causing me problems of a different kind this time.
: Our friendship with each other has gone way downhill, and now he barely talks to me. In typical Fourish fashion, I now find I crave his company-- ah, "the pull and the push of it all," as Kate Bush says.
: I also find I'm extremely, painfully envious of him, and it's drivin' me crazy, it's drivin' me nuts. He is far more sociable than I am (an ENFP) and spent the night being dressed in goth drag by a bevvy of attractive chicks, one of whom he slept with not so long ago, defending his loose behavior in the name of "self-discovery" or some such tripe.
: On top of that, a cute 3w4 gayboi who I have a crush on is falling for him.
: Granted, all of this is silly college angst that I will quickly be leaving behind, as I'm graduating in less than a week. But I guess I needed to spew. *shrugs* Feel free to reply with questions, comments, similar experiences, whatever. ^^;