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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Not foolish, just FourishPosted by Diarmuid on June 20, 2001 at 11:23:12: In Reply to: I just found out posted by it still hurts on June 20, 2001 at 08:04:18: This is typical four stuff. You lose something and thereafter that becomes the best ever thing in the universe. Fours even feel a tiny tinge of regret when they flush. Your job is to live IN THE MOMENT. I know nothing about this man, but I assure you, there are millions of men just as perfect for you in this planet, and the odds aren't that bad of meeting one of them. Post an ad if you must, but don't check for responses too often. Make a shortlist of the responses, highlighting the unconventional (yet clean) ones. You need a guy to have imagination. Better than all this, GET OUT and meet people in real life. Go to the theatre and start conversations with guys you like the look of. Check their wedding ring fingers. : That the guy I was in love with has a new girlfreind. This man ... : I only dated him for a few months before he moved back to his town. : That was how long ago .... My god .... almost 2 years .... and I still think about him. I still think he is everything I ever wanted. How could I mean so little to him : o god this hurts. it hurts a lot. : I know you must think i am so foolish. I don;t think I will ever meet somone who is so much what I am looking for .... : my heart is still breakoing over this ...
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