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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive working through it ain't easyPosted by emoot on June 20, 2001 at 19:26:29: In Reply to: I just found out posted by it still hurts on June 20, 2001 at 08:04:18:
: That the guy I was in love with has a new girlfreind. This man ... : I only dated him for a few months before he moved back to his town. : That was how long ago .... My god .... almost 2 years .... and I still think about him. I still think he is everything I ever wanted. How could I mean so little to him : o god this hurts. it hurts a lot. : I know you must think i am so foolish. I don;t think I will ever meet somone who is so much what I am looking for .... : my heart is still breakoing over this ... There isn't anything foolish about being in pain (actually it is good that you can let it out) and it is so amazing that sometimes the worst pain comes from the people we love. It takes a long time to get over and it can really floor a person. I wish it didn't have to be that way. But I always like to think that things will even out. Even though you feel real bad about this now....you know somewhere down the road things will look better. If it has been two years, then I would absolutely say that you are due for something good to happen. (: Too, you ought to go and do something really good for yourself. Take some time and go and do that one thing that you have been wanting to do but have not had the time for. It might help get you mind off of him and it will pick your spirit up a little bit. (: (:
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