Posted by autumnrainbow on July 26, 2001 at 10:20:02:
In Reply to: Rhonda's right....... posted by emoot on July 25, 2001 at 11:21:30:
: I read the other response by "someone" and I agree there's a lot there to deal with on all levels. It is too complex. Professional help is the only answer.
: Good Stuff, Rhonda.
: (:
: helpfully,
: emoot
I think if he doesnt want to break up his marriage and you dont want to break up yours then you should get over this torture and just accept him as your best friend. Im sure you can be best friends with someone without being romantically involved with them, even if you want to be. On the other hand im also thinking he could be your soulmate and thus you should be together. I know sometimes it sounds like a fairy tale talking about soulmates but the truth is I think most of the time getting with your soulmate and being with your soulmate is a harder relationship and a harder decision than to be with anyone else. But a time comes when the fear and the responsibilities and the "right thing to do for everyone involved are all overtaken with the immense overwhelming fear of losing your one true love, the person who understands you in a way no one else can. just something to think about.