Posted by Someone on July 26, 2001 at 14:46:25:
In Reply to: Re: Rhonda's right....... posted by autumnrainbow on July 26, 2001 at 10:20:02:
I think that accepting him as my best friend is probably my best option. I will try to be emotionally mature about it and hope to succeed most days. I will also try to give him more space and maybe that will help both of us not to be too attached. I talked to him this morning and I think he was glad to hear from me. He teased me softly about it-kinda sweet.
I have seen a therapist occasionally but I haven't really ever mentioned my feelings about my friend- mainly just my disappointment with my marriage. He didn't think I needed medication- just a better marriage. His idea was to come in for counseling BuT..since my husband doesn't think there is a problem,he sees no reason to go for counseling so that isn't really an option for us. You have all given me a lot to think about. Thanks to everyone for your heartfelt opinions. I appreciate you listening.