Posted by autumnrainbow on August 01, 2001 at 11:44:07:
In Reply to: Re: attn: 4s! advice needed posted by emoot on July 31, 2001 at 12:11:28:
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yeah that is good. also just listen to her talk about things, ask her about herself. i think sometimes we feel really ignored and misunderstood and if someone seems to understand us at all or even attempt to we are very excited about them.
I think shy four girls appreciate being pursued. I did anyway. You gotta make the first move. Try to strike up a conversation in the hallway or if you see her out walking. Compliment her clothes or hairstyle. If she seems like she likes you, she probably won't run away. Ask her about herself, what she does, what she likes, etc.
: In college I dated a 5w4 (computer science major). He met me at a party and I was thankful that he initiated the conversation. We had a pleasant talk. Basically, he found out all the information about me he could, without being pushy. He was really respectful, funny and sweet. Plus he let me know that he wrote poetry. For some reason that always got big points with me.
: I can't remember if I gave him my phone number or not, but anyway he called two days later and invited me to go walking with him. He kept the atmoshpere really casual which made me really comfortble. He went out of his way to be caring.
: I don't know that approach worked really well on this 4w5.
: good luck,
: emoot