Posted by Sharlee on January 30, 2002 at 02:09:43:
In Reply to: is it my fault? posted by Excalibur on January 30, 2002 at 01:29:45:
Ex, I'm not sure how old you are but 15 years ago, I guess you would both have been pre teens. Now if I got something from someone who I knew when I was at primary school, I would feel most puzzled and a little concerned about the intensity of the feeling. Also the method of finding the email address would spook me more than the words as that would indicate more than anything that something powerful was driving you. That would suggest to me you were feeling a litle obsessive and it would scare me. I know you are a 4 and think quite differently but for non 4's, it would be hard to understand as normal. If it was someone from high school, I would understand better as the girls start to notice boys then (usually). And if it was someone I liked at the time,I would be most flattered and certainly agree to meet.
I don't know where you can go from here. Is there a mutual friend who can act as go between. Or alternatively, if there are other mutual friends around, perhaps you could organise a reunion. She would feel safer in a crowd and it would give her an opportunity to get to know you wihtout feeling awkward. Sharlee