Posted by John DiFool on May 19, 1998 at 14:52:05:
In Reply to: Depression and Self-Pity posted by adavis on May 18, 1998 at 10:24:27:
The two can often have a synergistic effect on each other (I call it the
"Type Four Death Spiral!")-you think about what an awful person you are,
how nobody will ever love you, you doubt you will ever be happy, which
just intensifies the depression, which makes you hate yourself more, and
around and around you go down into Hell (I know, I have been there!).
I am wary of either-or thinking as a matter of principle, BTW.
John DiFool
"A person often takes up religion because he fears going to hell,
while a spiritual person has already been there and come back."
(a paraphrase of a wise person whose name I can't recall at the moment)