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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Four Romantic Entanglements!Posted by kAVIKA on May 20, 1998 at 21:38:29: In Reply to: Re: Four Romantic Entanglements! posted by Michelle on March 30, 1998 at 13:14:59: I think it is important to find someone who can go deep with you into your emotions both positive and negative. If you are in love with a compatible person, it should always be deep positive emotions. And, the response is empathetic andshared together. I am mostly a four and have a deep capacity for romance. I find difficulty sustaining my interest when my partner does not relate to the depth of my feeling and speculation of love. I try to discover my partners deepest emotions and most of the time I can't find it. Or, I see a shallow person and loos interest or get dumped for being too philosophical depending on the type of person I am with. Expressing emotions smbolically, physically is my strength and it usually doesn;t work well with other types like threes and sevens. I find that I thrive in negative environments and get bored in positive ones. If your mate cannot handle negative enviroments or your negative emotional moods empathetically, it could be unpleasant at times with feelings of abandoment or feeling your partner cannot pull you through or comfort you. As a Four, this need is important. However, in my experinces, it's better that a four hadle these emotions on their own if they stem from low self-esteem, envy, insecurities in general. Nice talking with you. Peace and HafaDai
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