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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: HurtPosted by Ronnie on September 24, 1999 at 05:16:30: In Reply to: Re: Hurt posted by Jasper on September 23, 1999 at 16:27:02: Well, I'm not still telling exactly where I live (as I've said before, I'm being mysterious...:) but I can tell you living in a small homogenous community where everyone is expected have the same values and style (sixish) would be extremly difficult for me. I'm not living in such a community, but here it seems most people are interested in keeping up all kinds of facades and pretending to be "something". I don't live in the US, but some people say that in values and lifestyle this is about the closest you can get in Europe. (Some people might guess the place by that, btw) It seems low-side threeish to me, no one dares to be him/herself. I'm sure there is a strong relationship between where you live (the social groups you deal with, etc) and how you perceive yourself. It probably isn't as bad to, say, threes or eights. Threes adapt to the outside values and eights don't give a damn... Ronnie
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