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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: To Ronnie - some thoughts.Posted by Ronnie on September 24, 1999 at 16:26:00: In Reply to: Re: To Ronnie - some thoughts. posted by Hal on September 24, 1999 at 08:50:10: Don't get me wrong, I do have a pretty good relationship with both my mother and father. I've grown and they've changed, I'd go as far as to say they are different people than they were when I was a kid. (especially my father) It's just that my childhood was what it was and so are my intial ideas about protection and nurturing. There still are some issues I haven't forgiven, but I'm working on it... It seems many fours here have had at least one strict parent, I wonder if there's a pattern there: A strict nurturing develops the four personality. 8, for example might have had passive nine parents who just couldn't take care of him well enough (from the eight's point of view). Now there's something to chew on...*S* Ronnie
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