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Enneagram Type 4 Board Archive Re: Tired...Posted by Tired Tigs. on September 24, 1999 at 20:17:57: In Reply to: Re: Tired... posted by Ev on September 24, 1999 at 15:04:49: Chasing after a man is *not* necessary, but making it possible to be in your presence is. Trouble is Ev, it's very hard to actually make it possible for men to be in one's presence. I don't know what it's like over there, but here women of all kinds, ages, sizes, degrees of beauty or intelligence, are finding it difficult to meet men. Some of my friends are even wishing they could have an arranged marriage just to get some help in finding someone suitable. I don't think it's that they're too fussy, just it's more difficult to meet new men. Like the nice ones rarely speak to you in pubs etc. in case you accuse them of sexually harassing you, and anyway assume you're just there to chat with one of your friends, (which may well be the case), and the others are the ones to steer clear of. That's if I even had someone to go to the pub with. Most blokes just go to the pub with their mates and aren't even thinking of meeting women. If I go to evening classes as some magazines suggest, the men there are usually sad bastards, and I just don't know where to meet any men. I tried a dating thing and it was awful, as well as being prohibitively expensive on the phone bill. Also it was London based and people can't be bothered to come out to Essex. Any Essex based one is full of Essex men who are not particularly well educated or cultured. I never go anywhere much, just to see close friends.
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